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Ecclesiastes

I enjoyed Susan's recent post on Ecclesiastes, Meaning in life, although I notice that there are now lots of comments on it that I haven't read. Not everyone is in agreement with Susan's thoughts, it seems :). Oh well, I like them! Here is some of what she wrote:

What a different perspective is the one "above the sun" than the perspective below! Below, our toil seems fruitless, but above, everything we do is to God's glory. Wow. That really helps me put things in perspective, because right now I want to serve God by nurturing my own children and instructing them of God's love, but that's not where He's placed me right now! But that doesn't mean I can't glorify Him as I teach, tutor, babysit, or even as I iron clothes or scrub dishes - more so, in fact, since those are the tasks He has currently given for me to do. Ch. 9, v. 10 of Ecclesiastes says, Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might. If only I could faithfully carry out this verse always! That is the challenge to every Christian.

I have read Ecclesiastes several times, and I especially like the end of the book.

Susan has also provided us with some poetry on the topic, Joy under the sun.

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Shooting our own soldiers

This is a guest post from my friend Dave, on the topic of the church. I think the a verse from Galations, which I read this morning, applies to this topic. After reminding the Galations of the commandment to love one another (5:14), Paul goes on to say: "But if you bite and devour one another, beware lest you be consumed by one another!". We have to be careful to make every effort to avoid this! I am not sure about all the details of what Dave has written, particularly the last paragraph, but I'd be intersted to hear your thoughts! This is a topic which is worth considering a lot more than we do.

In the first world war, the military on both sides made extensive use of trenches in battle. Ultimately, the goal was to fire upon and destroy the enemy and then move forward, capturing ground. One can imagine a number of platoons, perhaps from various allied nations, constructing trenches close together. The men in the various trenches would probably have different backgrounds and cultures, and their trench-making habits are likely to have differed somewhat: some may have been deeper than others, or with differently sloped sides, or with all manner of other, subtle differences. Nevertheless, all of the groups within these trenches had a common over-arching goal: to defeat the enemy (and they had no doubts as to whom or what that may be). Now imagine some of the trenches fighting not against the enemy, but rather shooting men in other, allied trenches in the back, because the former platoons disagreed, perhaps, with the trench-building style or the colour of the uniforms of the latter. If this kind of behaviour continued long enough, it wouldn’t take long, to be sure, before the enemy hardly needed to bother with an offensive at all. They would win by default as their opposition crumbled into a heap.

This, unfortunately, demonstrates the way Christians often function. The analogy was related to me by a close friend and as soon as I heard it, I was struck by the truth of it. Christianity is divided into a plethora of what could perhaps be called “sub-groups”, denominations, but despite the differences, we are all under the Lordship of Jesus Christ, our king and our general. He has given us one battle plan: thus we all fight the same battle and we use the same weapons. It is fair to say that the strategies of different captains in particular skirmishes may differ, but does it follow that these captains may be fairly accused of defiance or mutiny on that basis? I think not, and therefore cannot understand the enormous amount of vindictive squabbling that seems to go on within the church.

Now I also think it is important to understand what this analogy is not saying, and perhaps where it breaks down. There are certainly some groups, who are classified as Christian, whose beliefs cannot be aligned with scripture, and therefore, with such groups the church cannot be associated. Such groups have fallen into deception: they have eaten from the fruit of false teaching. This does not mean, however, that we must “shoot them in the back”, because, despite their being deceived, they are still not the enemy. I would argue that they are no different from “flower power”, peaceful objectors-of-war who perhaps don’t understand all of the issues. As a result, I would say that groups which are not aligned with scripture are not even fighting the right battle: it is more likely that they are not on the battlefield at all. I think the church quite simply needs to be clear about not following false teachers to false battlefields. That way we don’t need to shoot them in the back! We will have made the most enormous mistake, as a church, if we are in the wrong battle (in effect a non-battle), shooting at anyone except the enemy. How rebellious captains are dealt with is not for other captains to worry about: that is the prerogative of the Lord alone.

by Dave Drew

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Food in the USA

After I wrote my post The dark side of travel I started thinking about the food I ate when I was in the USA. Although I wrote very negatively of travel food, it was mainly meant to be a joke :)!! I enjoyed nearly every meal I had in the USA. Most of the food I ate was home cooked, which I don't think is the norm in the USA where people eat out a lot more than we do here.

One of the highlights of the USA culinary experience was being offered iced tea everywhere I went. I visited in the heat of summer, which explains why it was a popular drink. I had never heard of iced tea before! I spent my whole time in the south. Is iced tea a particularly southern emphasis, or is it just as prevalant in the north?

I also ate more mexican food than I ever have before or since! Another memorable culinary experience was a dessert night I attended for a birthday party. I also went out to someone's home for a 4th of July dinner. I think we ate watermelon, the "right" thing to eat on July 4. Of course, we also drank iced tea!

In the USA, it was kind of comforting to see the familiar eating chains that we have here. I bought Subway at the airport in LA, shortly after setting foot on USA soil for the first time, and it was like I had something from home to hold onto!

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Sacrifice

When I think about the beauty of sacrifice, this week's Carnival of Beauty topic, my mind automatically goes to Christ. His actions are the highest example sacrifice, and they produced the greatest results of any sacrifice in history. The fact that he took our punishment upon himself upon the cross means that we can have life. He was even separated from the presence of the Father, for us.

The second person I think of when I consider the beauty of sacrifice is my mother, and mothers generally. Growing up, I saw my mother sacrifice for us every day. At the time I may not have realised it, but now I look back upon those everyday memories and realise the sacrifice that was involved in what Mum did for us. Mum uncomplainingly served us meals, washed our clothes, kept a large garden, homeschooled, exercised hospitality, and cleaned our home. She put up with our complaints, even though we should have been grateful. We often failed to express gratitude, yet Mum continued to sacrifice. In this, she was like Christ. Our saviour never receives the praise he truly deserves, yet he continues to pour out his life for us.

In general, motherhood involves many sacrifices. I have never been pregnant, but I have seen many people experience this stage of life. It sure is a challenge! Many people experience more sickness and pain than they ever have in their lives before, and their bodies are never the same again! It is no wonder that in our modern society, where most people live for pursuing pleasure and avoiding pain, women increasingly choose to forego motherhood or limit it as much as they can. Childbirth is easier and safer than ever - yet many do not see that the pain it does cause is worth it.

Following pregnancy and childbirth, motherhood continues to present the necessity of many sacrifices. Sleepless nights, the mother-as-taxi syndrome, endless hugs and love, to name a few! Yet the beauty of these sacrificies is obvious to those of us who have wonderful mothers like mine, and even to many of those who do not. These sacrificies are worth it to raise up godly offspring, which is one of the purposes of marriage (Malachi 2:15). These sacrifices are worth it when the children finally do rise up and call their mother blessed, as the Proverbs 31 woman experienced. These sacrifices are worth it because life is about love and relationships, and God designed the relationship between parents and children to be one of the most important and fulfilling of these.

I could write more, but the Online Access Centre is about to close . . . this article has been written in only about 20 minutes, but I hope you still get something out of it!

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Over a hill


On October 4, I officially enter my mid-twenties. I will turn 25. To celebrate this milestone, I am holding a party on Friday October 6.

Time: 7:30pm
Food: Dessert, dessert, and more dessert. If you want anything to eat that is not sweet, you’d better have it before you come!
Place: My parent's house, address not published on net.
RSVP: email me at sherrin.ward@gmail.com, or phone or text me if you have my numbers
Can’t make it? Visit my weblog, “Small Things”, to see the food and fun you missed out on: http://sherrinward.blogspot.com

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The power of stories

My friend Phil posted a thoughtful, insightful comment on my last post Kids, social problems, and government control.

I wanted all my readers to benefit from Phil's comment, so I've made it into a post of its own. I recently read the story of Amnon and Tamar again. It is helpful to read these lessons I can glean from it, rather than just thinking "yuck, I'd forgotten how gross this story is"! There is a reason for every story in the Bible. They are all important teaching tools. The Bible frankly presents the reality of sin, but always with the intent to lead us to what is good. Here's what Phil wrote about stories:



I agree. Stories are so important! Stories shape us. They teach us values, inspire us, motivate us, restrain us...

How blessed we are if it is God's story that shapes our lives.

In many ways the themes dealt with are not that much different: sex, death, rape, witchcraft, violence, war, greed... The difference is that they are put into their proper truthful perspective and related to the greatest reality Himself, God.

Take for example one of the old testament's most R-rated stories, that of Amnon & Tamar. Is this a story for children? Absolutely. What a powerful lesson on the deceitfulness of lust! Whereas before the incident he was sick with love/lust, afterward it says, "Then Amnon hated her with intense hatred. In fact, he hated her more than he had loved her." As for Tamar herself, she became a desolate woman. The story unblushingly & honestly shows the devastation and destruction brought about by Amnon's sin.

It seems to me that the stories most children (and adults) are exposed to today teach lies (e.g. that immorality is a good and normal way of life)instead of promoting the truth. They often fail to show the true consequences of our actions.

I agree that it is a parental responsibility to be discerning about the stories children are exposed to. However, wherever possible I would also want to support a government which reflected biblical standards.

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Kids, social problems, and government control

The Australian media often features articles about the growing obesity problem amongst children. There are currently many discussions happening as to whether or not the government should implement such measures as advertising restrictions for fast food, and a junk food tax. Patricia Edgar, in her article "Nothing in it for Tomorrow's citizens" (The Australian, Thursday September 21, 2006), wrote that advertising should be restricted. According to Edgar, "The number of overweight people on the planet - more than one billion - exceeds the number of malnourished".

Yet this was not the central focus of Edgar's article. Rather, she lamented the lack of quality children's TV programs. "Today children spend more time with machines than with their parents." Edgar's concern is that what is shown to children promotes a culture of materialism. "Brands are ubiquitous and the fight to resist is overwhelmind for parents. We feed our kids toxic food. We have squandered TV's capacity to teach, inform and inspire."

Edgar's assessment of children's media is certainly one I would echo. Due to my babysitting and teaching experiences, I am increasingly aware that the media marketed to children is problematic. One of my main pet hates is the Bratz craze. Bratz dolls are heavily made up and scantily clad. There are movies featuring them, and merchandise ranging from shoes to pencil cases. One child I teach, age 6, seems to have Bratz everything. Images of purity and gracious femininity have been overtaken by sensuality and rebellion. This is just one example.

While I agree that children's media consumption is a concern, I am less impressed with Edgar's solution: government intervention and better early childhood education. "A national strategy for children must include the media." Such a conclusion assumes that the government is responsible for what parent's allow their children to watch on TV, or what parents choose to buy their children at the shopping mall. I believe that parents are responsible, not governments.

God gives the responsiblity for children's education to parents. All stories, including those told on TV, are "education". The Bible is full of stories, indicating the importance God places upon them. There is no such thing as "just a story". The tales the TV spins hour after hour, whether in advertising or programs, are not neutral. Parents are responsible for what type of stories they allow their children to be told.

One reason I think parents resist fulfilling their responsibilities properly, is a fear that their children will be "weird" if they are not soaked in popular culture. Christian parents at least, seeing the usual rebellious and unhappy children of the world, should want their children to be weird. If I have children, I want them to relate well to others and the world. Today, success in that goal would make them very weird.

Parents, even those who are not believers, can and should choose to fill their children's lives with stories that are good. Stories around the dinner table that impart family history and identity. Stories of nature and beauty, and of the character and virtues that they want their children to have. As an aunt, I also count myself responsible to tell good stories. Tales that inspire children to live beautiful lives.

If parents will not choose to fill their children's lives with stories that will infuse their lives with hope and purpose, no one else can fill that gap. The government can make what regulations it likes. The child care centers can be encouraged to implement, as Edgar suggests, "quality early childhood programs that employ drama, music, and information to enrich the lives of children". None of that can ever compare with the pattern God gives us in the Bible: parents walking beside their children, and telling them the stories they need to know.


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