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Social outcomes of home education

One of my blog posts caused some discussion about the social outcomes of children educated at home. Is a home education sufficient for learning to navigate social relationships? The quality of home education varies dramatically, as do parents' reasons for choosing this option. Click over to Dr Massey's recent research in NZ to read about his findings on parents' reasons. The diversity within home education makes it difficult to generalise. However, I am grateful to my friend Christina Baehr for compiling some research that has been done on homeschooling and socialisation. I have italicised references in the hope that this will make it easier to navigate. I'll hand over to Christina now . . .

Sociologists/anthropologists use the term socialisation to refer to a defined, observable process whereby humans absorb the norms, customs, symbols, attitudes, social roles and languages of their culture. I would suggest that a really helpful investigation of socialisation should begin with a proper understanding of what is meant by the term. There is so much which could be said on the topic, but I'll confine myself to a few observations.

People make the mistake of saying they want their children to be socialised. What they don't realise is that socialisation happens. Whatever you do, it happens. This isn't a normative term. The real issue here is to what extent the child's socialisation is *positive*. So we are talking about positive socialisation versus negative socialisation.

Apart from personal anecdotes based on limited exposure to individual families or ideologies which disqualify or exalt the social contribution of home-educated persons a priori, how can we judge the positive or negative quality of socialisation absorbed by the average homeschooler? I went online and looked up some research on the subject, which I'll share here.

In a study using the Piers-Harris Children's Self-Concept Scale to evaluate 224 home-schooled children, the researcher found that 50 percent of the children scored above the 90th percentile, and only 10.3 percent scored below the national average.    

- Taylor, John (1986). Self-Concept in Home Schooling Children. Ann Arbor, MI: University Microfilms International.

Thomas Smedley prepared a master's thesis for Radford University of Virginia on "The Socialization of Homeschool Children", using the Vineland Adaptive Behavior Scales to evaluate the social maturity of twenty home-schooled children and thirteen demographically matched public school children. The communication skills, socialization, and daily living skills were evaluated.

These scores were combined into the "Adoptive Behavior Composite" which reflects the general maturity of each subject. Smedley had this information processed using the statistical program for the social sciences and the results demonstrated that the home-schooled children were better socialized and more mature than the children in the public school. The home-schooled children scored in the 84th percentile while the matched sample of public school children only scored in the 27th percentile.

Smedley said: "In the public school system, children are socialized horizontally, and temporarily, into conformity with their immediate peers. Home educators seek to socialize their children vertically, toward responsibility, service, and adulthood".

-Thomas C. Smedley, M.S., "Socialization of Home Schooled Children: A Communication Approach," thesis submitted and approved for Master of Science in Corporate and Professional Communication, Radford University, Radford, Virginia, May 1992. 

This study done by Occupational Therapists researched the social activities and emotional characteristics of home-schooled children. They stated: "Results of the study indicate that home schooled children scored above average in relation to overall social skills while public schooled children scored average." The homeschooled children scored above the public schooled children on every indicator.

- Socialization Skills in Home Schooled Children Versus Conventionally Schooled Children; Lindsey D. Koehler, Trent J. Langness, Sarah S. Pietig, Nicole L. Stoffel, Jamie L. Wyttenbach; Faculty Sponsor: Deborah Dougherty-Harris, Department of Clinical Science, Occupational Therapy Program, University of Wisconsin La Crosse. 

Psychotherapist Dr. Larry Shyers compared behaviors and social development test scores of two groups of seventy children ages eight to ten. One group was being educated at home while the other group attended public and private schools. He found that the home-schooled children did not lag behind children attending public or private schools in social development. Dr. Shyers further discovered that the home-schooled children had consistently fewer behavioral problems.

- Dr. Larry Shyers, "Comparison of Social Adjustment Between Home and Traditionally Schooled Students," unpublished doctoral dissertation at University of Florida's College of Education, 1992. Dr. Shyers is a psychotherapist who is the Chairman of the Florida Board of Clinical Social Work, Marriage and Family Therapy, and Mental Health Counseling. 

This researcher reported that "the investigator was not prepared for the level of commitment exhibited by the parents in getting the child to various activities…It appeared that these students are involved in more social activities, whether by design or being with the parent in various situations, than the average middle school-aged child."

- from "Socialization Practices of Christian Home School Educators in the State of Virginia," a study of ten Virginia home school families, performed by Dr. Kathie Carwile, appeared in the Home School Researcher, Vol. 7, No. 1, December 1991. 

Dr. Brian Ray reviewed the results of four other studies on the socialization of homeschoolers and found: "Rakestraw, Reynolds, Schemmer, and Wartes have each studied aspects of the social activities and emotional characteristics of home-schooled children. They found that these children are actively involved in many activities outside the home with peers, different-aged children, and adults. The data from their research suggests that homeschoolers are not being socially isolated, nor are they emotionally maladjusted."

- Dr. Brian Ray, "Review of Home Education Research," The Teaching Home, August/September 1989, 49. See Rakestraw, "An Analysis of Home Schooling for Elementary School-Age Children in Alabama," doctoral dissertation, University of Alabama, Tuscaloosa, AL, 1987; Reynolds, "How Home School Families Operate on a Day-to-Day Basis: Three Case Studies," unpublished doctoral dissertation, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT, 1985; and Schemmer, "Case Studies of Four Families Engaged in Home Education,"unpublished doctoral dissertation, Ball State University, Muncie, IN, 1985. 

Me again! Social outcomes for home educators may be different from students in school, but that does not make them inferior. I was very interested in Thomas Smedley's comment that homeschoolers are socialised toward adulthood. I love that! Training for adulthood is exactly the aim we have for our children. I have closed comments on this post, but don't hesitate to contact me (sherrindrew@gmail.com) if you want to discuss this topic or provide further research. I would like to see more recent research, but was unable to find any.   

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Dave turns 33

Dave turned 33 last week. I decided to get him something he really wanted, but would not have purchased for himself. South Africans like to BBQ on a grill over coals, and they call this a braai. Dave has never been happy with using a gas BBQ, which he says is just like frying. So I splashed out and got him a Weber. I am sure our family will have many fun memories with this!



I was very impatient and had to give Dave his Weber a day early! We will probably wait a few months to use it as it is getting very cold now. The next day we had a chocolate cake and I got some cute father and son pics. Such happy boys! No, Dave is not 6 - the 3 green candles represent tens, and the three yellow candles represent ones :).




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Aliens, UFOs and the Bible

Today I want to share an excellent DVD with you. Creation Ministries International's Gary Bates teaches all over the world about the Bible and science in relation to aliens. Is this an important topic? Gary presents the fact that many people believe in aliens and UFOs. Leading scientists even suggest that they may have brought life to earth.

I love this DVD for many reasons . . .

* I would be happy to share it with non-Christians. In fact, I'd like to see what they had to say about it!

* Gary has a great tenderness and love for those who are caught up in believing in alien life, and especially for those who have had encounters with what they believe to be aliens. He has personally spoken with many of these people and shared the gospel with them.

* The Bible's teaching about Christ's death and resurrection to save us from our sins, as well as about the earth's origins, is clearly presented.

* This topic is very interesting! I find some Creation Ministries DVDs hard to follow, as my science education only extends to Year 10 and I have never had a natural aptitude. On this topic, though, my interest is held.

 * Gary has clearly done heaps of research into beliefs about aliens and whether or not the claims are scientifically reasonable. He has written a book on the topic called Alien Intrusion. I have read this and found it to be excellent. His conclusions are given weight due to his deep knowledge of the subject.

Gary Bates concludes that the phenomenon people report about aliens and UFOs have supernatural, demonic characteristics. It was amazing to hear that researchers have found one group of people who never experience alien abductions: born again, Bible believing Christians! Many people report saying the name of Christ and being freed from their alien encounter. This reminded me of my own encounters with the dark side of the supernatural in the past, and the way Christ freed me from fear. Wow! We serve a powerful God and it is wonderful to be reminded that our salvation not only frees us from sin and death, but also from Satan's attacks and deceptions. We are truly blessed. I love being reminded of that!

You can purchase Aliens, UFOs and the Bible from http://creation.com, on sale for $13.

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Day trips with family


Over the weekend we had a lovely time going on some day trips with our visiting family. A highlight was our visit to the Salmon Ponds at Plenty. This was a second visit for Dave and I (the first in Jan) and we loved the autumn colour this time. Uncle Christopher and Aunty Kerry had bought the babies matching suits, which was very cute!


I love this pic of Dave with Elnathan showing him the wood. They look equally enthralled about it!


Family pics were a must!

Natey looks cute in the leaves, but he wasn't very impressed with them! Another picture with the two babies was attempted but without success.


Then it was back home for the party! The next day we had a great time at Port Arthur.

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Elnathan's first birthday party


We had a lovely time at Natey's first birthday party. We had lots of extended family members to celebrate with, including special visitors from Queensland! Uncle Christopher was thrilled to meet his nephew, and Dave was thrilled to meet his little 10 week old niece.


Natey had a car cake as he loves to say "car"! The car was complete with a number plate saying Natey1.


After the candle was blown out he responded as all little boys should. He grabbed the lollies on the cake and stuffed into his mouth as many as would fit! He had never seen a lolly before, so this was a bit of a surprise.




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Healthy date loaf


I have been trying new foods for Elnathan as his appetite is increasing! I have found that he especially needs a good snack in the afternoon. Lately he has been eating an entire banana after his nap! Last week I tried a date cake recipe from Laraine Toms' Cooking for Your Baby: Fresh, health and enjoyable food for babies and children. I like this book because it presents lots of foods that are suitable for the whole family, including the baby. I amended the date cake recipe somewhat, and it turned out more like a sweet bread. It is sugar free and full of great fiber!

Ingredients:

1 1/2 cups wholemeal self-raising flour
3/4 cup wheatgerm (I used oatgerm)
1 1/2 cups chopped dates (I ran out of dates so used 3/4 cup and added a fresh pear)
1/2 cup sultanas
1 1/2 cups milk

This was the original recipe, but it seemed to me that you couldn't really have a cake without egg or butter! Here are my additions:

1 egg
Small amount of butter rubbed into the flour

Method:

1. Preheat oven.

2. Mix together flour and germ, rub in the butter, and mix through the dates (or dates and pear).

3. Place sultanas and milk in the blender and whiz until most sultanas are part of the liquid. I thought this was a wonderfully unique way to add sweetness to the bread! Add the egg and combine.

4. Add wet ingredients to dry and place in a greased loaf tin. Bake for 1/2 an hour - 45 mins or until cooked through.


I wanted to share this recipe as it is one of the few I have tried that are both healthy and very yummy. One friend who visited loves cake and she also gave this recipe a good report! Elnathan loves it, and ate about two slices on the day it was made. Now it is in the freezer and I can pull some out when needed.

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52 Week Bible Reading Plan

I have found it helpful to have a plan for Bible reading. Having a written plan makes it easy to know what to read next, and keeps me reading all parts of the Bible. It is great to be continually reminded of what God has done throughout history, not just in the New Testament. I am now up to the 25th week of the 52 Week Bible Reading Plan. The plan covers a different section of the Bible every day under the headings Epistles, The Law, History, Psalms, Poetry, Prophecy and Gospels. The history section tends to be at least five chapters daily, while the poetry section is only 1 - 2. If you have a set amount of time each day for reading, this could be a problem. However, I actually find it a blessing to have variation in the amount I read each day. I usually read the Bible while breastfeeding each morning, and return to it later if I haven't completed the section for that day.

I recently attended a Bible conference for women. One of the seminar leaders encouraged us to read smaller sections and really think about them rather than reading big chunks. She also suggested that we take one or two verses and carry them with us throughout the day. Since I know that following a plan is encouraging to me, and this involves reading some large chunks, I've decided to also write down a verse or two each day to think on more deeply. I find that certain verses tend to stick with me anyway. For example, I kept thinking over Ezekiel 16:49 "Look, this was the iniquity of your sister Sodom: She and her daughter had pride, fullness of food, and abundance of idleness; neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy". Wow! That was convicting! It has been true of me in the past and though I don't have "abundance of idleness" like I did in my teens, I need to use the time and money I have now to care about the needy.

What about you? Do you enjoy using a plan or just picking books and working through them slowly?

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